get married now - why?

Posted by redthil On 11/21/2009 10:20:00 PM

this one came during one of my casual conversation with my friend... it was little different one, but a practical reality... in this post title, i give little more stress for the word "now"... here is how it goes...


"
we might have had few friends in school,
  by the time we come to college,
    they become child-hood friends...


we might have had lot of friends in college,
  by the time we finish college,
    they all become golden friends...

but we get lot more friends,
  as we start working in company,
    as tenure in a company is temporary so are they...


but as we go around the world,
  we still have few friends left,
    whom we call as very-close friends...

and they grow older just as us,
  their priority changes just as ours,
    they get busy with their personal life just like us...


and why the focus just on friends,
  why not the respectable relatives,
    most importantly our parents and family...


our relatives are always there to make occasions special,
  they are there when we want them and also when we don't,
   i think otherwise for our day to day life...



our life is nothing without our parents and family now,
  but our journey is little longer,
    as they have arrived here long before us...



by the way whats this all about,
  nothing too complicate or intricate,
    'just someone to talk with at later part of our life'...


by no means its so simple,
  neither it can be taken for granted,
    nor it can be ignored...


now we're too busy,
  too many things happening to us,
    too little we get time to think about that...


now we have all those persons,
  whoever we like to talk with,
    whenever and wherever we need to...


when all these running-around slows down,
  just walking alone in the roadside,
    makes us feel like your life is hell...

when no one is around to talk then,
  its scary to even think of that,
    a situation worse than nightmare...


we cant get adjusted so easily to new person then,
  just to avoid that situation then,
    'get married now'.
"

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1 Comment

  1. Vijesh Said,

    but as we go around the world,
    we still have few friends left,

    - think her as your new friend you will be meeting. Things will become easier.

    we cant get adjusted so easily to new person then,
    just to avoid that situation then,

    - this does not change at all.

    Posted on Monday, November 23, 2009 12:30:00 AM

     
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